No that helps, and I get what you mean. I know a lot of readers of fanfic will feel "robbed" if they've read an epic length fic and nothing more than a kiss happens. Though I am not one of those people. I read porn and like it sure but I really do enjoy fics that portray a sexual creature without diving into the actual sex, it can be vague and simple--just a hint that the character isn't a total prude is enough for me.

Very tricky balance *SQUISHES* Thank you, hon! I hope you are well!